What and how we practice
A Handful of Leaves
What we practice, how it is ordered, and why it has that name.
The story of the name
One afternoon, some twenty-five centuries ago, the Buddha was walking with a group of his students through a grove of trees in northern India. He bent down, gathered a few fallen leaves into his hand, and asked them a question. Which are more numerous, the leaves in my hand, or the leaves in the forest above us?
The answer was obvious, and so was the point. He told them: what I have come to understand is vast, like the forest. What I teach is like this handful. Only what helps. Only what leads onward: to peace, to clear seeing, to the easing of unnecessary suffering, and to lives of wisdom and compassion that benefit ourselves, the people we love, and the world we all share.
Our way of practice takes its name from that afternoon, and its promise from it too. What we practice together is a handful, not a forest, and it was gathered with one question in mind: does this help a person suffer less, see more clearly, and love more capably? Everything in it is there because, for many people across many centuries, the answer has been yes.
Why a handful
Every teaching of every Buddhist tradition, and many traditions beyond, is available to us at once. A retreat in one lineage, a book from another, a podcast from a third, an app teaching something adapted from all of them. That is a real gift. It is also, much of the time, overwhelming. We can have all the information we could ever need and still not have what we need. Exposure everywhere, orientation nowhere.
The traditions did nothing wrong. Each of the great lineages is complete in itself: a whole path, with real depth, able to carry a person all the way. But few of us can live inside a single tradition the way earlier generations did, with a lifetime of immersion. We meet the traditions broadly rather than deeply, a course here and a book there, and breadth without roots leaves even sincere practitioners scattered, holding valuable pieces with no way to put them together.
A Handful of Leaves exists for this. It replaces nothing and ranks nothing.
How it is ordered
What makes this a practice and not a collection is the ordering. The elements are organized by function: not by school or country, but by what a teaching is for in a life of practice. There are seven gatherings, and they are best met not as a list but as the arc of such a life: why we begin, what holds us, what we meet in the mind, where we look, how we look, and what is finally seen.
Every one of them is available in your first week. None of them is ever finished.
One practice, many doors
A fair question arises once you see how much the handful holds. Loving-kindness comes from one lineage, breath awareness from another, contemplation of change from a third. Have we gathered many practices, all competing for the same cushion?
No, and the reason fits in one image. The open, settled, softly luminous awareness underneath everything we do is not an instrument in the orchestra. It is the hall the music is played in. Nothing in the handful competes with it. Nothing in the handful is on its level.
So our sitting has two modes, and we live in both. There is the open sitting: settling into what is already here, adding nothing, leaving nothing out. And there are the particular practices, the many doors, taken up on purpose for a time. What makes any of them ours is a shape simple enough to remember for life, and small enough to fit inside ten minutes before the house wakes up. Settle first. Add the practice gently. Recognize that what it reveals was already yours. Let it all return to openness at the end.
For anyone
Buddhist, secular, spiritual, or undecided: the door is the same, and so is the depth. This is Buddhist wisdom, rooted in the early teachings and honoring the traditions that grew from them, offered without dogma. What we share is informed by modern science, lived experience, and the world’s wisdom traditions, and it will feel familiar if you came to meditation through a mindfulness course, a class at work, or an app. Those doors are real doors; they led you here. Whatever true thing you carry from elsewhere keeps its honored place. Nothing here will ask you to believe anything. It will ask you to look.
Everyone who joins us receives the full introduction to the handful and the map of its elements: the understanding underneath the practice, the seven gatherings and what is in each of them, and how to walk it. It is a map people return to for years.
Come sit with us, and see.